i40e: Fix for allowing too many MDD events on VF

This patch changes the driver behavior when detecting a VF MDD event.
It now disables the VF after one event, which indicates a hw detected
problem in the VF.  Before this change, the PF would allow a couple of
events before doing the reset.

Signed-off-by: Carolyn Wyborny <carolyn.wyborny@intel.com>
Tested-by: Andrew Bowers <andrewx.bowers@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>