net/mlx4: support per-queue statistics via netlink

Make mlx4 compatible with the newly added netlink queue stats API.

Signed-off-by: Joe Damato <jdamato@fastly.com>
Tested-by: Martin Karsten <mkarsten@uwaterloo.ca>
Reviewed-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240528181139.515070-4-jdamato@fastly.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>