mm/memcg: alignment memcg_data define condition

commit 21c690a3 ("mm: introduce slabobj_ext to support slab object
extensions") changed the folio/page->memcg_data define condition from
MEMCG to SLAB_OBJ_EXT. This action make memcg_data exposed while !MEMCG.

As Vlastimil Babka suggested, let's add _unused_slab_obj_exts for
SLAB_MATCH for slab.obj_exts while !MEMCG. That could resolve the match
issue, clean up the feature logical.

Signed-off-by: Alex Shi (Tencent) <alexs@kernel.org>
Cc: Randy Dunlap <rdunlap@infradead.org>
Cc: Yoann Congal <yoann.congal@smile.fr>
Cc: Masahiro Yamada <masahiroy@kernel.org>
Cc: Petr Mladek <pmladek@suse.com>
Cc: Suren Baghdasaryan <surenb@google.com>
Cc: Vlastimil Babka <vbabka@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Vlastimil Babka <vbabka@suse.cz>