fs: dlm: don't use RCOM_NAMES for version detection

Currently RCOM_STATUS and RCOM_NAMES inclusive their replies are being
used to determine the DLM version. The RCOM_NAMES messages are triggered
in DLM recovery when calling dlm_recover_directory() only. At this time
the DLM version need to be determined. I ran some tests and did not
expirenced some issues. When the DLM version detection was developed
probably I run once in a case of RCOM_NAMES and the version was not
detected yet. However it seems to be not necessary.

For backwards compatibility we still need to accept RCOM_NAMES messages
which are not protected regarding the DLM message reliability layer aka
stateless message. This patch changes that RCOM_NAMES we are sending out
after this patch are not stateless anymore.

Signed-off-by: Alexander Aring <aahringo@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>