net/mlx5: fs, do proper bookkeeping for forward destinations

Keep track after destinations that are forward destinations.
When a forward destinations is removed from an FTE check if
the actions bits need to be updated.

Signed-off-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Maor Gottlieb <maorg@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>