rxrpc: Clean up connection abort

Clean up connection abort, using the connection state_lock to gate access
to change that state, and use an rxrpc_call_completion value to indicate
the difference between local and remote aborts as these can be pasted
directly into the call state.

Signed-off-by: David Howells <dhowells@redhat.com>
cc: Marc Dionne <marc.dionne@auristor.com>
cc: linux-afs@lists.infradead.org