bpf: fix struct htab_elem layout

when htab_elem is removed from the bucket list the htab_elem.hash_node.next
field should not be overridden too early otherwise we have a tiny race window
between lookup and delete.
The bug was discovered by manual code analysis and reproducible
only with explicit udelay() in lookup_elem_raw().

Fixes: 6c905981 ("bpf: pre-allocate hash map elements")
Reported-by: Jonathan Perry <jonperry@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>