fs: dlm: remove DLM_IFL_LOCAL_MS flag

The DLM_IFL_LOCAL_MS flag is an internal non shared flag but used in
m_flags of dlm messages. It is not shared because it is only used for
local messaging. Instead using DLM_IFL_LOCAL_MS in dlm messages we pass a
parameter around to signal local messaging or not. This patch is adding
the local parameter to signal local messaging.

Signed-off-by: Alexander Aring <aahringo@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>