sfc: Validate IRQ moderation parameters in efx_init_irq_moderation()

Add a range check, and move the check that RX and TX are consistent
from efx_ethtool_set_coalesce().

Signed-off-by: Ben Hutchings <bhutchings@solarflare.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>