tcp: convert icsk_user_timeout from jiffies to msecs

This is a preparatory commit. Part of this series that improves the
socket TCP_USER_TIMEOUT option accuracy. Implement Eric Dumazets idea
to convert icsk->icsk_user_timeout from jiffies to msecs. To eliminate
the msecs_to_jiffies() and jiffies_to_msecs() dance in future.

Signed-off-by: Jon Maxwell <jmaxwell37@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>