netfilter: defrag: Add glue hooks for enabling/disabling defrag

We want to be able to enable/disable IP packet defrag from core
bpf/netfilter code. In other words, execute code from core that could
possibly be built as a module.

To help avoid symbol resolution errors, use glue hooks that the modules
will register callbacks with during module init.

Signed-off-by: Daniel Xu <dxu@dxuuu.xyz>
Reviewed-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/f6a8824052441b72afe5285acedbd634bd3384c1.1689970773.git.dxu@dxuuu.xyz


Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>