bpf: Add TCP connection BPF callbacks

Added callbacks to BPF SOCK_OPS type program before an active
connection is intialized and after a passive or active connection is
established.

The following patch demostrates how they can be used to set send and
receive buffer sizes.

Signed-off-by: Lawrence Brakmo <brakmo@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>