kbuild: Unify options for BTF generation for vmlinux and modules

Using new PAHOLE_FLAGS variable to pass extra arguments to
pahole for both vmlinux and modules BTF data generation.

Adding new scripts/pahole-flags.sh script that detect and
prints pahole options.

[ fixed issues found by kernel test robot ]

Signed-off-by: Jiri Olsa <jolsa@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20211029125729.70002-1-jolsa@kernel.org