bpf: allow zero-initializing hash map seed

Add a new flag BPF_F_ZERO_SEED, which forces a hash map
to initialize the seed to zero. This is useful when doing
performance analysis both on individual BPF programs, as
well as the kernel's hash table implementation.

Signed-off-by: Lorenz Bauer <lmb@cloudflare.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>