btrfs: free delayed node outside of root->inode_lock

On heavy workloads, we're seeing soft lockup warnings on
root->inode_lock in __btrfs_release_delayed_node. The low hanging fruit
is to reduce the size of the critical section.

Signed-off-by: Jeff Mahoney <jeffm@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <clm@fb.com>