bpf: offload map memory usage

A new helper is introduced to calculate offload map memory usage. But
currently the memory dynamically allocated in netdev dev_ops, like
nsim_map_update_elem, is not counted. Let's just put it aside now.

Signed-off-by: Yafang Shao <laoar.shao@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230305124615.12358-18-laoar.shao@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>