PCI/MSI: Allocate MSI device data on first use

Allocate MSI device data on first use, i.e. when a PCI driver invokes one
of the PCI/MSI enablement functions.

Add a wrapper function to ensure that the ordering vs. pcim_msi_release()
is correct.

Signed-off-by: Thomas Gleixner <tglx@linutronix.de>
Tested-by: Michael Kelley <mikelley@microsoft.com>
Tested-by: Nishanth Menon <nm@ti.com>
Reviewed-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/87r1adrdje.ffs@tglx