net: change proto and proto_ops accept type

Rather than pass in flags, error pointer, and whether this is a kernel
invocation or not, add a struct proto_accept_arg struct as the argument.
This then holds all of these arguments, and prepares accept for being
able to pass back more information.

No functional changes in this patch.

Acked-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>