xsk: Replace the cheap_dma flag with a dma_need_sync flag

Invert the polarity and better name the flag so that the use case is
properly documented.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20200629130359.2690853-3-hch@lst.de