ARM: dts: don't assume boards are using twl4030 for omap3

If a board isn't using twl4030, then dtc will complain about the missing
phandle (which is in twl4030.dtsi).  Move the phy declaration to the dts
files.

Signed-off-by: Jason Cooper <jason@lakedaemon.net>
Signed-off-by: Tony Lindgren <tony@atomide.com>