selftests: nft_flowtable.sh: monitor result file sizes

When running nft_flowtable.sh in VM on a busy server we've found that
the time of the netcat file transfers vary wildly.

Therefore replace hardcoded 3 second sleep with the loop checking for
a change in the file sizes. Once no change in detected we test the results.

Nice side effect is that we shave 1 second sleep in the fast case
(hard-coded 3 second sleep vs two 1 second sleeps).

Acked-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Boris Sukholitko <boris.sukholitko@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>