selftests: forwarding: generalize bail_on_lldpad from mlxsw

mlxsw selftests often invoke a bail_on_lldpad() helper to make sure LLDPAD
is not running, to prevent conflicts between the QoS configuration applied
through TC or DCB command line tool, and the DCB configuration that LLDPAD
might apply. This helper might be useful to others. Move the function to
lib.sh, and parameterize to make reusable in other contexts.

Signed-off-by: Petr Machata <petrm@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Danielle Ratson <danieller@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Vladimir Oltean <vladimir.oltean@nxp.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>