dlm: use kref_put_lock in __put_lkb

This patch will optimize __put_lkb() by using kref_put_lock(). The
function kref_put_lock() will only take the lock if the reference is
going to be zero, if not the lock will never be held.

Signed-off-by: Alexander Aring <aahringo@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>