md/raid10: Do not add spare disk when recovery fails

In raid10_sync_request(), if data cannot be read from any disk for
recovery, it will go to 'giveup' and let 'chunks_skipped' + 1. After
multiple 'giveup', when 'chunks_skipped >= geo.raid_disks', it will
return 'max_sector', indicating that the recovery has been completed.
However, the recovery is just aborted and the data remains inconsistent.

Fix it by setting mirror->recovery_disabled, which will prevent the spare
disk from being added to this mirror. The same issue also exists during
resync, it will be fixed afterwards.

Signed-off-by: Li Nan <linan122@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230602091839.743798-2-linan666@huaweicloud.com