wifi: iwlwifi: mvm: d3: implement suspend with MLO

When using MLO, we need to have only a single link active
when entering suspend and of course most of the code also
needs to be adjusted to not use deflink, apart from older
code that's not used with MLO-capable firmware. Implement
that.

Note that the link selection currently prefers the "best"
link, which might really not be the best for D3, but that
can be fixed later once we agree.

Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Gregory Greenman <gregory.greenman@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Miri Korenblit <miriam.rachel.korenblit@intel.com>
Link: https://msgid.link/20240131091413.38f0fd4d2db0.I27c7a1d08aecc5da0af2c351212f22e92ed70219@changeid
Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>