IB/qib: RCU locking for MR validation

Profiling indicates that MR validation locking is expensive.  The MR
table is largely read-only and is a suitable candidate for RCU locking.

The patch uses RCU locking during validation to eliminate one
lock/unlock during that validation.

Reviewed-by: Mike Heinz <michael.william.heinz@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>