btrfs: remove refs_to_add argument from __btrfs_inc_extent_ref()

Currently the 'refs_to_add' argument of __btrfs_inc_extent_ref() always
matches the value of node->ref_mod, so remove the argument and use
node->ref_mod at __btrfs_inc_extent_ref().

Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Signed-off-by: Filipe Manana <fdmanana@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>