genetlink: fit NLMSG_DONE into same read() as families

Make sure ctrl_fill_info() returns sensible error codes and
propagate them out to netlink core. Let netlink core decide
when to return skb->len and when to treat the exit as an
error. Netlink core does better job at it, if we always
return skb->len the core doesn't know when we're done
dumping and NLMSG_DONE ends up in a separate read().

Reviewed-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Ido Schimmel <idosch@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>