btrfs: move ulists to data extent sharedness check context

When calling btrfs_is_data_extent_shared() we pass two ulists that were
allocated by the caller. This is because the single caller, fiemap, calls
btrfs_is_data_extent_shared() multiple times and the ulists can be reused,
instead of allocating new ones before each call and freeing them after
each call.

Now that we have a context structure/object that we pass to
btrfs_is_data_extent_shared(), we can move those ulists to it, and hide
their allocation and the context's allocation in a helper function, as
well as the freeing of the ulists and the context object. This allows to
reduce the number of parameters passed to btrfs_is_data_extent_shared(),
the need to pass the ulists from extent_fiemap() to fiemap_process_hole()
and having the caller deal with allocating and releasing the ulists.

Also rename one of the ulists from 'tmp' / 'tmp_ulist' to 'refs', since
that's a much better name as it reflects what the list is used for (and
matching the argument name for find_parent_nodes()).

Signed-off-by: Filipe Manana <fdmanana@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>