net: ethtool: let the core choose RSS context IDs

Add a new API to create/modify/remove RSS contexts, that passes in the
 newly-chosen context ID (not as a pointer) rather than leaving the
 driver to choose it on create.  Also pass in the ctx, allowing drivers
 to easily use its private data area to store their hardware-specific
 state.
Keep the existing .set_rxfh API for now as a fallback, but deprecate it
 for custom contexts (rss_context != 0).

Signed-off-by: Edward Cree <ecree.xilinx@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Przemek Kitszel <przemyslaw.kitszel@intel.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/45f1fe61df2163c091ec394c9f52000c8b16cc3b.1719502240.git.ecree.xilinx@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>