bpf: Enable BPF_PROG_TYPE_SK_REUSEPORT bpf prog in reuseport selection

This patch allows a BPF_PROG_TYPE_SK_REUSEPORT bpf prog to select a
SO_REUSEPORT sk from a BPF_MAP_TYPE_REUSEPORT_ARRAY introduced in
the earlier patch.  "bpf_run_sk_reuseport()" will return -ECONNREFUSED
when the BPF_PROG_TYPE_SK_REUSEPORT prog returns SK_DROP.
The callers, in inet[6]_hashtable.c and ipv[46]/udp.c, are modified to
handle this case and return NULL immediately instead of continuing the
sk search from its hashtable.

It re-uses the existing SO_ATTACH_REUSEPORT_EBPF setsockopt to attach
BPF_PROG_TYPE_SK_REUSEPORT.  The "sk_reuseport_attach_bpf()" will check
if the attaching bpf prog is in the new SK_REUSEPORT or the existing
SOCKET_FILTER type and then check different things accordingly.

One level of "__reuseport_attach_prog()" call is removed.  The
"sk_unhashed() && ..." and "sk->sk_reuseport_cb" tests are pushed
back to "reuseport_attach_prog()" in sock_reuseport.c.  sock_reuseport.c
seems to have more knowledge on those test requirements than filter.c.
In "reuseport_attach_prog()", after new_prog is attached to reuse->prog,
the old_prog (if any) is also directly freed instead of returning the
old_prog to the caller and asking the caller to free.

The sysctl_optmem_max check is moved back to the
"sk_reuseport_attach_filter()" and "sk_reuseport_attach_bpf()".
As of other bpf prog types, the new BPF_PROG_TYPE_SK_REUSEPORT is only
bounded by the usual "bpf_prog_charge_memlock()" during load time
instead of bounded by both bpf_prog_charge_memlock and sysctl_optmem_max.

Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Acked-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>