nvme: disable fabrics SQ flow control when asked by the user

As for now, we don't care about sq_head pointer updates anyway, so
at least allow the controller to micro-optimize by omiting this update.

Note that we will probably need to support it when a controller
that requires this comes along.

Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>