cpumask: arch_send_call_function_ipi_mask: alpha

We're weaning the core code off handing cpumask's around on-stack.
This introduces arch_send_call_function_ipi_mask().

We also take the chance to wean the send_ipi_message off the
obsolescent for_each_cpu_mask(): making it take a pointer seemed the
most natural way to do this.

Signed-off-by: Rusty Russell <rusty@rustcorp.com.au>