mctp: Add helper for address match checking

Currently, we have a couple of paths that check that an EID matches, or
the match value is MCTP_ADDR_ANY.

Rather than open coding this, add a little helper.

Signed-off-by: Jeremy Kerr <jk@codeconstruct.com.au>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>