md: Hold mddev->reconfig_mutex when trying to get mddev->sync_thread

Commit ba9d9f1a707f ("Revert "md: unlock mddev before reap sync_thread in
action_store"") removed the scenario of calling md_unregister_thread()
without holding mddev->reconfig_mutex, so add a lock holding check before
acquiring mddev->sync_thread by passing mdev to md_unregister_thread().

Signed-off-by: Li Lingfeng <lilingfeng3@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230803071711.2546560-1-lilingfeng@huaweicloud.com
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>