block: add a return value to set_capacity_revalidate_and_notify

Return if the function ended up sending an uevent or not.

Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org # v5.9
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Petr Vorel <pvorel@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>