x86/kvm/mmu: check if tdp/shadow MMU reconfiguration is needed

MMU reconfiguration in init_kvm_tdp_mmu()/kvm_init_shadow_mmu() can be
avoided if the source data used to configure it didn't change; enhance
MMU extended role with the required fields and consolidate common code in
kvm_calc_mmu_role_common().

Signed-off-by: Vitaly Kuznetsov <vkuznets@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Sean Christopherson <sean.j.christopherson@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>