netfilter: xt_RATEEST: acquire xt_rateest_mutex for hash insert

rateest_hash is supposed to be protected by xt_rateest_mutex,
and, as suggested by Eric, lookup and insert should be atomic,
so we should acquire the xt_rateest_mutex once for both.

So introduce a non-locking helper for internal use and keep the
locking one for external.

Reported-by:  <syzbot+5cb189720978275e4c75@syzkaller.appspotmail.com>
Fixes: 5859034d ("[NETFILTER]: x_tables: add RATEEST target")
Signed-off-by: Cong Wang <xiyou.wangcong@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Reviewed-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>