drm/i915/audio: Use intel_de_rmw() for most audio registers

The audio code does a lot of RMW accesses. Utilize
intel_de_rmw() to make that a bit less tedious.

There are still some hand rolled RMW left, but those have
a lot of code in between the read and write to calculate
the new value, so would need some refactoring first.

v2: Add parens around the ?: to satisfy the robot

Cc: Chaitanya Kumar Borah <chaitanya.kumar.borah@intel.com>
Cc: Kai Vehmanen <kai.vehmanen@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Takashi Iwai <tiwai@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Jani Nikula <jani.nikula@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Kai Vehmanen <kai.vehmanen@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Ville Syrjälä <ville.syrjala@linux.intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20221026170150.2654-13-ville.syrjala@linux.intel.com