cxgb4: fix throughput drop during Tx backpressure

commit 7c3bebc3 ("cxgb4: request the TX CIDX updates to status page")
reverted back to getting Tx CIDX updates via DMA, instead of interrupts,
introduced by commit d429005f ("cxgb4/cxgb4vf: Add support for SGE
doorbell queue timer")

However, it missed reverting back several code changes where Tx CIDX
updates are not explicitly requested during backpressure when using
interrupt mode. These missed changes cause slow recovery during
backpressure because the corresponding interrupt no longer comes and
hence results in Tx throughput drop.

So, revert back these missed code changes, as well, which will allow
explicitly requesting Tx CIDX updates when backpressure happens.
This enables the corresponding interrupt with Tx CIDX update message
to get generated and hence speed up recovery and restore back
throughput.

Fixes: 7c3bebc3 ("cxgb4: request the TX CIDX updates to status page")
Fixes: d429005f ("cxgb4/cxgb4vf: Add support for SGE doorbell queue timer")
Signed-off-by: Rahul Lakkireddy <rahul.lakkireddy@chelsio.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>