dlm: remove DLM_LSFL_SOFTIRQ from exflags

The DLM rcom handling has a check that all exflags are the same for the
whole lockspace membership nodes. There are some flags that requires
such handling, however DLM_LSFL_SOFTIRQ does not require this handling
and it should be backwards compatibility with other lockspaces that does
not set this flag.

Fixes: f328a26e ("dlm: introduce DLM_LSFL_SOFTIRQ_SAFE")
Signed-off-by: Alexander Aring <aahringo@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>