pNFS/flexfiles: Report RDMA connection errors to the server

The RPC/RDMA driver will return -EPROTO and -ENODEV as connection errors
under certain circumstances. Make sure that we handle them and report
them to the server. If not, we can end up cycling forever in a
LAYOUTGET/LAYOUTRETURN loop.

Fixes: a12f996d ("NFSv4/pNFS: Use connections to a DS that are all of the same protocol family")
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org # 5.11.x
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@hammerspace.com>