ipv4: Revert removal of rt_uses_gateway

Julian noted that rt_uses_gateway has a more subtle use than 'is gateway
set':
    https://lore.kernel.org/netdev/alpine.LFD.2.21.1909151104060.2546@ja.home.ssi.bg/



Revert that part of the commit referenced in the Fixes tag.

Currently, there are no u8 holes in 'struct rtable'. There is a 4-byte hole
in the second cacheline which contains the gateway declaration. So move
rt_gw_family down to the gateway declarations since they are always used
together, and then re-use that u8 for rt_uses_gateway. End result is that
rtable size is unchanged.

Fixes: 1550c171 ("ipv4: Prepare rtable for IPv6 gateway")
Reported-by: Julian Anastasov <ja@ssi.bg>
Signed-off-by: David Ahern <dsahern@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Julian Anastasov <ja@ssi.bg>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>