genetlink: load policy based on validation flags

Set the policy and maxattr pointers based on validation flags.
genl_family_rcv_msg_attrs_parse() will do nothing and return NULL
if maxattrs is zero, so no behavior change is expected.

Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>