btrfs: delayed-ref: Use btrfs_ref to refactor btrfs_add_delayed_data_ref()

Just like btrfs_add_delayed_tree_ref(), use btrfs_ref to refactor
btrfs_add_delayed_data_ref().

Signed-off-by: Qu Wenruo <wqu@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>