nvme: only add a controller to dev_list after it's been fully initialized

Without this we can easily get bad derferences on nvmeq->d_db when the nvme
kthread tries to poll the CQs for controllers that are in half initialized
state.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>