vhost: add vhost_worker pointer to vhost_virtqueue

This patchset allows userspace to map vqs to different workers. This
patch adds a worker pointer to the vq so in later patches in this set
we can queue/flush specific vqs and their workers.

Signed-off-by: Mike Christie <michael.christie@oracle.com>
Message-Id: <20230626232307.97930-4-michael.christie@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>