dma-buf/sw_sync: Add fence deadline support

This consists of simply storing the most recent deadline, and adding an
ioctl to retrieve the deadline.  This can be used in conjunction with
the SET_DEADLINE ioctl on a fence fd for testing.  Ie. create various
sw_sync fences, merge them into a fence-array, set deadline on the
fence-array and confirm that it is propagated properly to each fence.

v2: Switch UABI to express deadline as u64
v3: More verbose UAPI docs, show how to convert from timespec
v4: Better comments, track the soonest deadline, as a normal fence
    implementation would, return an error if no deadline set.

Signed-off-by: Rob Clark <robdclark@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Christian König <christian.koenig@amd.com>
Acked-by: Pekka Paalanen <pekka.paalanen@collabora.com>
Signed-off-by: Dmitry Baryshkov <dmitry.baryshkov@linaro.org>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20230823215458.203366-4-robdclark@gmail.com