block: remove __sync_blockdev

Instead offer a new sync_blockdev_nowait helper for the !wait case.
This new helper is exported as it will grow modular callers in a bit.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20211019062530.2174626-3-hch@lst.de
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>