blk-mq: add a flags parameter to blk_mq_alloc_request

We already have the reserved flag, and a nowait flag awkwardly encoded as
a gfp_t.  Add a real flags argument to make the scheme more extensible and
allow for a nicer calling convention.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>